Writing Your Own Wedding Vows? Non-Traditional Examples and Inspiration
Hello Friend!
As a dedicated celebrant based in Dublin, Ireland, I'm passionate about crafting personalised wedding ceremonies that reflect the uniqueness of each couple's love story.
Your wedding vows don’t have to follow a script—or sound like anyone else’s. In fact, the most meaningful vows are often the ones that break from tradition and speak straight from the heart. Whether you’re promising to always share dessert, support each other’s wild dreams, or never forget the tea bags on the weekly shop, your words should sound like you. In this post, I’m sharing creative and personal ideas for writing non-traditional wedding vows that feel authentic, relaxed, and full of personality—just like your relationship.
1. Promises Inspired by Shared Passions:
For couples whose bond is deeply rooted in shared interests and passions, incorporating these into your vows can add a beautiful layer of significance to your ceremony. Whether you're avid travelers, food enthusiasts, or nature lovers, tailor your promises to reflect the adventures you've shared and the dreams you're yet to explore together.
Example:
"Through every journey, from the highest peaks to the deepest valleys, I promise to be your steadfast companion, your co-adventurer, and your forever travel buddy. Let's explore the world hand in hand, embracing every moment as another chapter in our grand adventure."
2. Vows of Mutual Growth and Support:
In a every relationship, it's essential to acknowledge the importance of supporting each other's personal growth and aspirations. Craft vows that emphasise your commitment to nurturing each other's dreams, embracing change, and standing together through life's highs and lows.
Example:
"I promise to stand by you not only in times of joy but also in moments of challenge. I vow to support your dreams, celebrate your victories, and provide solace in times of uncertainty. Together, we'll navigate life's winding paths, growing stronger with every step we take."
3. Unconventional Promises of Humour and Quirkiness:
Injecting humour and whimsy into your wedding vows can infuse your ceremony with light-heartedness and laughter, reflecting the playful essence of your relationship. Embrace inside jokes, funny anecdotes, and quirky promises that showcase your unique personalities and shared sense of humour.
Example:
"In sickness and in health, in moments of triumph and epic fails, I promise to always be your partner in crime. I vow to laugh at your jokes, even the not so funny ones, and to never stop trying to outdo each other with ridiculous dance moves. Together, let's keep life amusing and full of joy."
I hope these suggestions resonate with you and make the process of writing your vows more relaxing for you. Wedding vows are one of the topics that brings most stress for couples and I really want to help you have a stress free wedding planning process and a relaxing wedding day!
Your wedding vows are a deeply personal expression of your love and commitment to each other. Whether you opt for traditional (see some ideas I shared in previous blog here) or non-traditional vows, what matters most is that they resonate with your hearts and reflect the authentic bond you share.
As your dedicated wedding celebrant and solemniser in Dublin, Ireland, I'm here to help you craft a ceremony that celebrates your love story in all its beautiful uniqueness. If you're ready to embark on this journey together, reach out, and let's create a wedding ceremony that's celebrates your love for one another.
Until next time,
Boyana